
They say all is fair and love and war, and producer Swizz Beatz's soon-to-be ex-wife Mashonda is taking that saying literally. The singer took a very public jab at her ex's new lady, Alicia Keys, in an open letter penned to the piano-clad singer.
Mashonda's verbal exchange with Keys started in response to a question posed by the Grammy winner on Twitter. "Having a heated debate in the studio," Keys wrote. "[In] love is it better to go [for] the choice that is 'SMART,' or the choice that has 'SPARK?'
After catching wind of said post Mashonda published her letter to Keys: "After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat. I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page," Mashonda wrote. "I've never reached out to her on Twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I've reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response."
The Harlem native goes on to describe her first encounter with Keys by way of an introduction from Swizz himself. Mashonda also made it clear that despite their pending divorce she still calls Swizz her "husband" until the split is legally finalized. "I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. It's been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.
"My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes. If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create."
"I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. It's baffling to me that you don't understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I don't consider myself a victim anymore, I've learned a lot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final."
Since news of their hook-up broke last summer both Swizz and Keys have remained mum on the subject. Keys reportedly threw Swizz a birthday party, and the two were recently photographed having an intimate dinner in the South of France.
Neither Swizz nor Keys' camp have responded to Mashonda's letter.









Reader Comments(1 of 2)
sherlitaat 9-28-2009
Mashonda...let it go girl, i know you want your family but unfortunately when your dealing with a skank...a skank has no remorse, they just want you have and they don't care who they hurt or what they destroy to get it. And let's not place all the blame with her either. Hold your head up and remember what goes around comes around.
tuffy we luv youat 9-28-2009
Swizz ad AK been getting it on i seen them up in sony studios way back when LL recorder that amerie joint trust me they been boning ....mashonda get over it girl get yourself a new man in the industry......like Drag on lmao
tuffy we luv youat 9-28-2009
by they way with a name like mashonda and a face like yours i would rather look at alicia than you lmao and do you think your husband Swizz is fine??// this is like beyonce and jay z alicia and swizz i dont know what man is uglier jayz or swizz lmao
mademanwillat 9-28-2009
Well whats done is sone and what goes around dows come around but regardless of what happened only u and him really know so no need to blame her u were home wit him so u need to look at urself. you can only change 1, you can never change 2 so relax and enjoy ur freedom
badgirlnikki120at 9-28-2009
oh please mashonda this has nothing to do with alicia YOURE the one who decided to divorce swizz BECAUSE he wasnt helping you enough with your music career he kept pushing your album relase date back cuz he knows your wack way less talented than alicia herself...so please dont tirn this into something its not;you got what you wanted now be happy and move on
lsdc31at 9-29-2009
Don't be mad at AK. Blast him. He played a part in it as well, a big part. Get over it and let it go.
Vashaunat 9-29-2009
See what chicks need to realize is if a man says that he is married that means hands off but it seems to me that Alicia is a major pop off some chicks need to realize if it's that easy for you to take somebody's husband away from them it's going to be easy for the next chick to take him from you it's called Karma! And who would want to play second to the next woman anyways see thats how stupid chicks are when he gets done with you he will go home to his wife at the end of the day and you will be looking stupid!
Miss Purnellat 9-29-2009
I feel sympathy for Mashonda...
Regardless of how the situation went down, it always hurts when ur family is broken. AK not being sensitive of Swiss' family matters is absolutely disrespectful. Then again we don't know what the tweet meant. Sounds like she was conflicted with what choice to make. Whether smart or spark, she should've went with a decision from the heart. Always better to let one door close before you open another one...
Be grown about it!
denay222at 9-29-2009
I understand to a certain extent were Mashonda is coming from. Although she feels hurt by the whole situation I dont think that airing your business out on a twitter page was the way to go. Its hard for people to realize that she may have thought that her and Swizz may have had a chance for reconcilliation had it not been for AK. Now, if that is a true statement or not we may not know. I hope they all find peace in this especially since there is a small child involved. I do agree that there should have been a certain amount of respect that SHOULD have been shown, but wasnt. Understandably, if HE believed his marriage was over then give this woman the common courtesy to end it completely before flaunting a new relationship in front of her. There really isnt an easy way to end a marriage but there is a RESPECTFUL way to do it.
mavrck22at 10-01-2009
I used to think AK was SO HOT and she also seemed pretty cool. Then I found out she was racist against white people even though shes half white and it kinda took her down a few pegs in my book...now I find out shes a skank Ho, now looking at her pic she doesn't look so hot anymore...just another pig. Very classy letter by swiss cheese wife by the way...it ALL comes around in the end by the way AK...I'd laugh but their aint much funny about the whole thing.
yungwidowat 10-05-2009
So Alicia Keys is actually the BITCH that she projects in interviews. I can say that I've watched her and she does seem to go for what she wants, no matter who she has to stab in the back or what kids she's leaving without a father in the home. She's lucky Mashonda didn't fuck her up (the way it should be handled if they weren't in the spotlight). On everything Alicia would be bald, toothless, and never hitting another note again.(temporary insanity is what it'll be). It's been scientifically proven the derangement a broken heart can cause.
ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS ALICIA IS LUCKY SHE FOUND SOMEONE WHO ONLY TOOK THEIR HURT AS FAR AS A LETTER!!
mmcclintm5at 10-06-2009
Everyone hatin AK but keep in mind that we don't know what the inner-workings of their relationship was like. She could have been a self centered, controlling, evil woman who didn't appreciate him. Maybe there's something she was doing or not doing, that made Swizzy feel like he was better off leaving that situation because it wasn't gonna get better. There's alot we don't know about but I think it's fair to say it happened for a reason. Maybe this is Mashonda's "Karma" for something she did in the past. Anyway SWIZZ K.I.M. homie. Do U.
urhyness09at 10-08-2009
Oh well Mashonda lost her man to bad.... to bad so sad. AK treat that dude right, Mashonda does not deserve him
LOL
tajdeeproductionat 10-10-2009
i think that it is not cool to put any of the parties involved on blast. no one knows what swizz told alicia. no one knows what was going on at home with him and mashonda either. life is too short. how can anyone be surprised? this is the american way. how many people get married and stay that way? the statistics are even worse for people in hollywood. i don't think alicia is a skank or that mashonda is stupid. i think the matter could've been handled better since they are all ADULTS, but to me, it is still going on for publicity. Swizz is ugly, Mashonda isn't beautiful, and Alicia isn't that much better looking. they are all gonna make money from this (bad publicity is better than none).
If anything, I feel bad for the child/children involved.
AphroditeBullat 11-04-2009
Although Swizz Beats is the only one who has an ethical and legal obligation to respect his vows, nevertheless, Miss Keys, as a SISTA should have declined to pursue a relationship with a married man. I am very diasappointed with her. She followed her heart? What about her conscience? What disgusts me the most, is the lack of ethics that exists in the Black Community regarding the institution of marriage. Swizz Beats was more concerned about the potential detriment a scandalous affair would have on Alicia's career. I doubt that he was concerned about Mashonda's well being. Well there you have it, Black America!, we would oppose Prop 8, yet condone Swizz Beats and Alicia Keys behavior of infidelity. Social Conservatism? I beg to differ! More than 70% of households are now ran by Single Black Women. Judging by the ignorant comments on this site, its imperative to say, that Black women are indeed CLASSLESS, and at the bottom of the socioeconomic barrel! No REAL woman of any class, who holds herself in high regards, would ever condone the 'immature', wreckless actions of Swizz Beats and Alicia Keys.